Happiness & Sadness

Chinese new year will be coming in few days. For me, it's a normal festive for me. It's like when u grow older, the feeling for celebrating chinese new year is getting 'boring'. There is no excitement in celebrating it. For me, it's a chance for me to rest for few days from busy working life. I have a chance to apply leave to runaway from the pile of workload. What a beautiful days for me. Haha.. By the way, I'm actually don't like visiting people or people come over visiting me. I'm thinking pf skipping this year's visting to my colleagues' house. Not sure will succeed or not. It's a tough plan and job for me.

After chinese new year's holiday, I just have few days left to work with my best colleague. She will be leaving the office to a greater job opportunity. Great and good for since the existing job makes her feel frustrated. No more people sit beside me talk to me and eat lunch with me. Haii.. Emptiness... Cannot ask for help when I have one. Helpless... No one to share anime with... Loneliness.. ... ... ... What a sadness time for me...

Just hope this wouldn't come soon but it is.. She keeps on counting the days leaving the office and days left.. Haii..

However, my life have to go on. She is the nicest and helpful colleague I ever had. Will be missing her too..

For those pass by here and read my blog post, thanks for reading my blog. I appreciate the time you spend.

As for my brother, 'Happy Chinese New Year and add oil in your exam. Don't forget He and me will be there for you when you need it.'

Happy Chinese New Year, everyone. May God bless all of you.

Thought For Days

How Not to Get Tired
It's not busy-ness in life that makes us tired. It's thinking too much that makes us tired. How not to get tired? Don't get distracted, get upset or get too 'lost' in anything or anyone. Don't think too much about the work. Just do it! Then your mind will stay rested whilst you work.

Be At Peace
You spend most of your life running after things, doing things. You forget that being comes before doing. Those who remember this secret make an effort to "be" and discover that when they stop and observe, life helps and brings whatever is needed. Learning to be is learning to be at peace. It is our most fundamental nature.

Eternal Treasures
In the ocean of silence you may discover your eternal treasures of peace, love and happiness. In silence, you can let bad feelings and past sorrows dissolve. In silence you can hear the whisper of God saying "Come child and rest with Me. You are a peaceful soul."

Virtue of Sweetness
Sweetness is a virtue that searches with patience for the good in every person
and situation.

Spiritual Progress
There is benefit for you in every situation. If, that is, you know how to look for it. The idea behind steady spiritual progress is to see every circumstance and situation (particularly those that challenge you) as a tailor-made lesson in your personal plan for self-development. For example, in a situation where hurtful or angry words were exchanged, why not see it as the chance either to perceive things about your own character which need changing or to rehearse some virtue or quality that you need to put into practice more often? Actually, we should be grateful for the opportunity to evaluate ourselves. In this way you can transform anything into a constructive lesson. Never think that you've learned enough and now can stop. You should love it when people try to correct you or give you advice. It keeps you alert and gives you plenty of opportunity to put your truth into practice. It's a sign of great danger to be unable to accept criticism and instead use your understanding to criticise others. Realise deeply the significance of every moment, and your spiritual progress will be assured.

Easy
With the good wishes and drops of co-operation from everyone, even the biggest tasks of all will become easy.

Inner Calm
The greater the demands on me, the more I need to sustain my inner calm
and stability.

Inspirational
How can we serve others around us? By making our lives inspirational and interacting with tact and wisdom. We should be so cheerful, and our lives such examples, that they say 'Here is an angel.'

Determination and Patience
Determination is the strength that will enable you to pass the barrier of useless thoughts in order to create positive thoughts and to be successful in whatever you wish. It comes from within and its partner is patience. Patience teaches you not to push but rather to wait and appreciate the game of life instead, knowing that nothing remains the same, and everything will change at some point.


Spotting Qualities
A compassionate person develops an eye for spotting the qualities that make each person special. Even when others are at their lowest ebb, it is possible to help them restore their self-belief by keeping a firm, clear vision of their goodness and specialities. Taking a gently encouraging approach, I must never give up on anyone.

All We Need Is Love
Everyone looks outside for everything, including love. Love is all that everyone wants. Their purpose in life is love; to love someone, to be loved, to love their car, to love their dog, to love their garden etc. But all these types of love are perishable and are destined to fade away. The love we really want is within us all the time. When we feel love, where is the love coming from? It is within us, that’s because we are love. So I need to sit in silence and get to know myself again, because when I get to know my true self I will find out that I am love. I don’t need to look for it outside. I have an imperishable supply of the most sweetest love possible within me.

Fill The Gap
If anyone has has any weakness, make it your duty to fill that gap. To speak about someone's weakness is not greatness. The greatness lies in removing that weakness.

Power To Tolerate
You have the power to tolerate anyone and any situation. But tolerance is not just suffering in silence. It means going beyond any personal discomfort you may feel, and giving a gift to whom ever you would tolerate. Give your time, attention, understanding, compassion, care - all are gifts, which paradoxically, you also receive in the process of giving. And, as you do, you will experience your own self esteem and inner strength grow. In this way you can turn tolerance into strength.

Pure Love
If we obey the principle of pure love, our life will always go in the right direction. Altruistic and unconditional love is pure and comes from our inner truth. When we are obedient to that inner truth, our life becomes a joyful dance.

Dance In Happiness
The easy way to remain happy is to remain constantly light. Pure thoughts are light and waste thoughts are heavy. Therefore, keep your intellect busy with pure thoughts and you will become light and continue to dance in happiness.

Letting Go of Hurt & Mistrust
When someone has done what we neither expected nor wanted them to do, our attachment to our expectation causes us to be 'hurt'. The 'hurt', imagined or not, causes mistrust to arise within us.
To free ourselves from habitual mistrust of others, we have to become aware that it's our response that contains the hurt, and not the other person's behaviour that causes the hurt.
Realise: It's not what you say, it's what I do with what you say or do that makes me feel this way.

Silence Is Gold
If speech is silver, silence is gold. When you must speak, speak a few words, speak sweetly and softly. That is the way to reach a listener's heart.

Lasting Fragrance
Tread lightly upon this earth, seeing, understanding but never imposing. Thoughtful, independent, be gracious in victory and defeat. Free of possessiveness, so ease of mind sweetens relationships. Like the scent of a rose the untroubled spirit imparts a lasting fragrance.

Light Hearted Soul
You are a light hearted soul who laughs in the face of fear, and only cries tears of joy.

Like A Star
At the end of the day, on the wings of your thoughts, go beyond the cares and troubles of the world. Remove your mind from everything and everyone, and become blissfully detached, like a star. Like a star, be free to radiate light, for your essence is light and peace. Enjoy the simplicity of the night sky, the peace. And then, when you want to, you can shoot down to earth.

Generosity
You are a soul who does not wait for happy endings, but creates them with the power of a generous heart.

Look For Goodness
In everything, goodness is there, our goal is to find it. In every person, the best is there, our job is to recognise it. In every situation, the positive is there, our opportunity is to see it. In every problem, the solution is there, our responsibility is to provide it. In every setback, the success is there, our adventure is to discover it. In every crisis, the reason is there, our challenge is to understand it. By seeing the goodness, we'll be very enthusiastic and our lives will be richer.

Start Early
The best time to awaken both body and spirit is in the early morning. We are fresh, in solitude, and the vibrations of the world are at their calmest. It is not surprising that you will find all experienced meditators and yogis up with the dawn, inviting the sun of spirit to shine into the heart of their soul. The first half hour of conscious awareness will be the foundation of your day. Make an early start. Meditate, set the switch of your consciousness and calibrate your energy for the day. You'll be surprised the difference it makes.

Happy New Year
Give birth to new possibilities through your ability to reach into the future and let go of the past.

Quality Thinking
The quality of thought creates the quality of life.

Wellbeing
The more I develop the habit of noticing goodness, the more my own sense of wellbeing rises.

Life is not measured by how many breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.